5 Parenting Styles and Their Effects on Life

Sprouts presents four classic parenting styles and adds a more modern “fifth” style: authoritarian, permissive, authoritative, neglectful, and over-involved (helicopter/snowplow) parenting. YouTube+2Sprouts Learning Videos+2

Here’s how each style works and what effects they may have:

AuthoritarianVery demanding, strict rules, little warmth or responsiveness, obedience expected without explanation. Children may become obedient and good at following rules, but risk being less confident, having low self-esteem, or being unsure about their own preferences. 

PermissiveWarm and loving, but with few rules, low demands or discipline, few expectations. Children may struggle with self-control, boundaries, and perseverance. They might not develop strong regulation of behavior.

AuthoritativeBalanced: clear rules and expectations, but responsive and willing to listen and explain. Encourages autonomy within limits. This style tends to produce well-adjusted children: confident, socially adept, with good self-regulation and decision-making skills. 

Neglectful (Uninvolved)Low in both demands and responsiveness; little engagement from parent, minimal supervision or support. Children may feel insecure, have trouble forming healthy relationships, low self-worth, and difficulties in emotional regulation. 

Over-Involved (Helicopter / Snowplow)Extremely involved, micromanaging, intervening in every aspect of the child’s life; removing obstacles for them rather than letting them struggle. This may lead to children who are less resilient, avoid challenges, procrastinate, lack problem-solving skills, or have anxiety when faced with difficulties.